Winter holidays confuse       {me}

          so lets diffuse                  {them}    

Recent explication of my (dis)(un)(suspended)(awe) belief to a interested party yielded the following summary,  "Oh, so you just celebrate what you like, then?"

Which,

really,

is seasonally adjusted genius.

Dispense with the gnashing of teeth and just celebrate what I like. With the people that I like. 

I like candles, trees, cinnamon, kindness to strangers, snow, warm ovens, and surprises.